Baby Boomers Find Love Through Online Dating

by Susan Quilty on August 30, 2010

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Online dating is quickly becoming a convenient way for Baby Boomers to meet special someone.

Today’s singles have more options when it comes to meeting someone new. Instead of relying on friends and family members for match-ups, or hoping for chance meetings, Baby Boomers can turn to the Internet to search for their own ideal match.  Online dating and singles clubs are growing in popularity among active adults in search of that someone special.

According to a recent article in AARP Magazine, people over 50 are the fastest growing group visiting online dating sites. There are many online dating services where Baby Boomers can find success, such as eHarmony.com, Match.com, or OkCupid.com. However some active adults would prefer to sign up for online dating sites that are designed specifically for Baby Boomers. This growing list of specialty dating sites includes many relatively unknown services all designed to draw in active adults over the age of 50.

With so many options for online dating, how is a Baby Boomer to choose the right online dating site? And are there ways to increase the chance of success once they do sign up?

Many books have been written to help people navigate their way through the world of online dating. At least one such book has emerged as a popular guide specifically designed for Baby Boomers. “The Boomers’ Guide to Online Dating”, by Judsen Culbreth, is an excellent resource for active adults. This book helps Boomers decide if they are ready to try online dating, choose an online dating site, and take measures to increase their chances of finding love online.

When exploring the world of online dating, there are a few basic tips that all Baby Boomers should consider:

1. Evaluate your goals
Are you looking for a companion to take on casual dates? Are you hoping to find a serious, long-term commitment? Or are you somewhere in between? Understanding your own desires will help you find someone with the same expectations.

2. Be honest
You don’t have to lay your life story on the table, but you should avoid white lies and half-truths. That means using a recent picture and copping to your actual age. You would expect honesty in the people you meet; do offer others the same courtesy.

3. Create a positive profile
While you might be nervous or doubting your chances of finding someone online, don’t post those negative thoughts on your profile. Focus on your personal strengths and the positive traits you would like to find in someone else.

4. Do not reveal personal information too soon
To be safe while dating online, do not be in a rush to reveal your home address or even your home phone number. Stick to your cell phone, video chatting, texting and email until you see how the relationship is going.

5. Meet in a public place
When you are ready to meet in person, arrange to meet in a public place. This is a basic online dating safety measure and you may want to reconsider anyone who pushes to pick you up at your home instead.

Whether looking for a casual companion or a long-term commitment, Baby Boomers are turning to online dating as a way to meet someone special. If you are single and have been longing to meet someone new, consider taking a chance on Internet dating services. The person of your dreams may be waiting online.

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